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<title>Please wipe your feet before you come in</title>
<updated>2023-09-30T23:47:21Z</updated>
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<summary>Reframing to a non-victim, non-blame mentality.  Welcome, all!</summary>
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<title>Can’t we all just get along?</title>
<updated>2023-07-06T19:06:02Z</updated>
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<summary>If our head were a house, how are we treating each other?</summary>
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<title>Home Renovations: Intercom or Holodeck?</title>
<updated>2023-05-18T21:53:11Z</updated>
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<summary>Whether subtle or obvious, barriers to communication between residents can cause no end of problems for multis.  Here's some tips to improve internal communication.</summary>
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<title>Meetings, Part 3 — Tips for running meetings</title>
<updated>2022-10-08T21:05:16Z</updated>
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<updated>2022-09-02T23:26:00Z</updated>
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<summary>Some specific notes on internal communication and some suggestions.</summary>
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<title>We're so glad you could join us!</title>
<updated>2022-06-16T00:42:34Z</updated>
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<author><name>XES</name></author>
<summary>Helping stuck guests gain co-awareness.</summary>
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<updated>2022-06-02T19:47:53Z</updated>
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<summary>Contained and self-mediated conversations.</summary>
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<title>Agreeing to Disagree</title>
<updated>2022-06-01T12:19:43Z</updated>
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<author><name>Crisses</name></author>
<summary>It's okay to have differences of opinion.</summary>
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<title>Who Am I Right Now?</title>
<updated>2022-01-29T13:39:53Z</updated>
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<author><name>Crisses</name></author>
<summary>When you're muddied, when you grope for your headmates and can't find them in the fog, when the lights are out in your internal landscape, here's some tips on handling depersonalization, including positive triggers.</summary>
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<title>Dividing up the Chores</title>
<updated>2022-01-20T12:49:43Z</updated>
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<summary>How we define and divvy the roles we have inside.</summary>
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