I agree that if you are going to go poking in memories or prodding those who remember into spilling the beans that you need support. It can be a therapist, a coach, a great friend. In some cases, a friend might even be better: there's no ethical constraints against a friend holding you or stroking your hair if you need to be held.
You're welcome -- this is something we've needed to write for a while, but just like stumbling on something you need to hear/read at the right time, I couldn't write it until the right time for us either : ) So we've been living together by these principles for many years -- we just needed to be in the right place to organize it, put it into words, etc.
Please enjoy, and don't hesitate to ask questions or for clarification! Also, let us know whether something works or doesn't work for you. Blessings on you!
Comment by Crisses on December 17, 2012, at 07:50 AM
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I agree that if you are going to go poking in memories or prodding those who remember into spilling the beans that you need support. It can be a therapist, a coach, a great friend. In some cases, a friend might even be better: there's no ethical constraints against a friend holding you or stroking your hair if you need to be held.
You're welcome -- this is something we've needed to write for a while, but just like stumbling on something you need to hear/read at the right time, I couldn't write it until the right time for us either : ) So we've been living together by these principles for many years -- we just needed to be in the right place to organize it, put it into words, etc.
Please enjoy, and don't hesitate to ask questions or for clarification! Also, let us know whether something works or doesn't work for you. Blessings on you!