Sounds so familiar (as a facilitator type…) to our loads of perfectionism, workaholism, and taking that "Let's all get this done!!" attitude to our headmates. We thought, for a while, that facilitate was a "healthier" F-word/panic reaction, and then realized it's yet another heaping helping of panic reaction. Everyone stay calm! We'll get through this!! (meanwhile the building is burning). If only we stay hyper-present and wring all the fun out of everything, we'll beat this! lol -- ah, Crisses-past…you were such an egg. Not to say we won't say the same thing in 10 yrs about something we're doing today. : ) Probably will. We're still such an egg : )
Good luck! Being curious about ourselves is a powerful tool. And incremental improvements are helpful. Take great care of yourselves.
Thank you, H.F., for the great comments.
Sounds so familiar (as a facilitator type…) to our loads of perfectionism, workaholism, and taking that "Let's all get this done!!" attitude to our headmates. We thought, for a while, that facilitate was a "healthier" F-word/panic reaction, and then realized it's yet another heaping helping of panic reaction. Everyone stay calm! We'll get through this!! (meanwhile the building is burning). If only we stay hyper-present and wring all the fun out of everything, we'll beat this! lol -- ah, Crisses-past…you were such an egg. Not to say we won't say the same thing in 10 yrs about something we're doing today. : ) Probably will. We're still such an egg : )
Good luck! Being curious about ourselves is a powerful tool. And incremental improvements are helpful. Take great care of yourselves.