You're absolutely right! If we wrote this entry today it would be pretty different and certainly would mention some of the things y'all touched on and weave in to the article on Shame New.
It's also impossible to be perfect, so when we hold ourselves to impossible standards (perfectionism) there's generally one way for it to turn out. Or maybe we think we did a pretty good job, give ourselves an opportunity to eke out a little pride in our results or the effort put into something -- and then are crushed if we get any criticism whatsoever, even if it's meant to be constructive.
You're absolutely right! If we wrote this entry today it would be pretty different and certainly would mention some of the things y'all touched on and weave in to the article on Shame New.
It's also impossible to be perfect, so when we hold ourselves to impossible standards (perfectionism) there's generally one way for it to turn out. Or maybe we think we did a pretty good job, give ourselves an opportunity to eke out a little pride in our results or the effort put into something -- and then are crushed if we get any criticism whatsoever, even if it's meant to be constructive.
We appreciate the input!! : )